The latter half of this thread has largely been you trying to dictate the terms of your help. Again, you are the one who needs help, which means you’re the one asking to be done a solid. It’s nice if people decide to oblige you (and your request is certainly more productive than the full-side rejections of assistance that comprised the first half of this thread), but really they are under no obligation to do so. If they decide to help you in exactly the manner you demand, then it is purely out of the goodness of their hearts - they owe you nothing, and you are largely not in a position to demand anything.
I didn’t say it before, but my practice matches with the player I mentioned mostly consist of me mollywhopping him for 10 straight games or until the set is done, with only periodic pauses for me to send terse messages along the lines of “anti-air - don’t let me jump in for free” and similar things. He’s a great sport about it, but I can’t imagine it’s super fun. But he wants to get better, so he’s willing to sit there and let me poke as many holes in his game as I can find in 10 matches, all the while sending short missives to tell him to start or stop doing something. I’m sure he’d like to take some games from me, but I’m competitive and don’t like losing, and turn up the heat whenever I think he might take a game off me.
One day this player will take a game from me though, and then he’ll take two, and then he’ll beat my Jago. And then I’ll switch to Sako and we’ll start all over again. But he will be improving throughout that whole process, and as he levels up and earns those wins he will begin to find and prosecute the holes in my game, and we will level up together. Getting better isn’t always about having oodles of fun and getting things the exact way you want them - sometimes you’re just putting your nose to the grindstone so that you can get to the point where you’re able to play freely.
Good. That is the attitude you should have.