I hate fighting this character so very much

Also gives you an extra hit to Shadow Counter on. Depending on the opponent’s aggression, it allows you to start a combo.
Maybe sit down and play the character, see what she’s actually capable of? From your post and a lot of others pointing out, it seems clear you don’t have great knowledge of her abilities. And I’m not saying that out of contempt or anything, just as a means of getting better against your problems.
Relevant thread,