So, I’ll just start off by saying, I am super competitive. I know when it comes to fighting games, I struggle beyond belief. I used to consider fighting games as my second to last genre simply because they take more to learn and they are tougher than most other genres. I will still never like racing games, but fighting now holds a special place in my heart.
With that being said, I still can’t help but feel the bitter taste of losing. I mean, if someone taunts or teabags I will get super salty but that is another matter as it can still bother even the most disciplined. Still, even without someone disrespecting the match or me, I can’t help but feel like a loser. I don’t mean the obvious, but I mean it as I can often times get discouraged or lose my focus and go back into the match really aggressively which will only lead me to lose over and over.
I practice often and play KI everyday at this point, I have already poured over 500 hours into this game, which is a lot for me. I understand the fundamentals of most characters and can even touch on the advanced side of certain characters. As @TheNinjaOstrich knows, I do tend to lose my focus, grow impatient and hang myself with the many mistakes. I have done my best to hone in on my mistakes and anxiety since I last played against a great Jago player and have seen how great I have gotten.
For someone who never dedicated the time into fighting games as much as others, I have certainly come a long way. However, the road I have walked means little when I am easily shut down by the emotions of losing. We all have a desire to win as stated by Max…
So my question is simple after this long rant of nothingness… as fighting veterans how do you cope with losing? Maybe you eat a healthy snack of carrots, clear your mind through meditation, or even continue to practice. I am interested in seeing your way of coping with the feeling of saltiness or great defeat.